'Love is NOT blind"..A Tribute To VAlentinE

“LOVE IS BLIND”,we have always heard of this .But this is debatable and I would prefer saying that the person in love is blind instead .Lets view few cases where love is blamed for the doing of so called “lovers” .For example ,when someone tries to hook up with someone who already has a girlfriend or boyfriend , these people just cant control thmselves from letting the person go although knowing the truth and when questioned of their reluctances, they answer that they cant let go the love and thee takes the risk .But when things go out of control ,they blame the others simply by saying “oh my love was blind” but look back u took the risk .so take the blame yourself people .Coz it was thee who was blind for not seeing what’s coming and its not fair to steal someone else girl or guy although you deeply in love with that person because there is chance you will loose the person to the same person you stole from because first love is so powerful .That’s a different topic. Sometimes we even witness break up’s and when asked about this matter to the person ,they say that the love faded or trust faded .That’s usual .I personally heard of reason such as “long distance” .When I asked the person if thee knew the person thee was falling for was gonna be far from you…why u fell in love . The answer was “love was blind’. Nonsense , blame love again . The Love is tested especially when you are far away with your loved ones..trust and love is tested there .They say love is always a matter of the heart . I probably wont agree in that because my friend did quote that it has something to do with the mindset and I realized love is all over ourselves .But still some people are blinded by looks ,money and fame .I would grade this as love out of desires ,love for looks ,money and fame instead the person .But you ask this people ,they would say they love is blind and it doesn’t see money and looks and things go bad for them ,they will tell us that love was blind AGAIN . They were blind actualy , but there are some people who true lovers who get someone with looks ,loaded and fame as bonus package and that’s just what some deserve and I wont say all lovers are like that , dun get me wrong , Look at ourselves ,we are what we are , what we wannabe , what we chose to be..So,the term love is blind should not be misused anymore…it’s a disgrace for the love it self ..blame yourself for falling for the wrong person..not the love itself…and there is something that caught my eyes.Scientific explanation for Love is Blind Theorem I call it. For example, in romantic love a part of the brain towards the base, called the hypothalamus, is specifically activated and this area is implicated in pushing out chemicals which mediate sexual arousal like testosterone and other sex hormones. The hypothalamus does not activate when we love our children. Another difference was the part of the brain involved in face processing and recognition appeared to be more active in maternal compared with romantic love and the authors of the study speculate that the rapid rates with which the facial features of babies and young children change and the importance of reading children's facial expressions require a constant updating of the face-recognition machinery, leading to heightened activity in this part of the brain. The fact that this face recognition area is not so active in romantic love suggests our lovers are meant to not change so rapidly in appearance, indicating perhaps a neurological basis for suggesting we were meant to be monogamous, or at least not sleep around so much that our brains might find it difficult to recognize whom we were waking up with the next morning. Also, in romantic love, some parts of the brain possibly implicated in what is termed "theory of mind" seem to be more active compared with maternal love. So love your friends , family and the gods…and have a nice VALENTINE.TQ to My friend ..who provoked my brains to write this .